Monday, February 27, 2012

REAL LIFE

this is it....Daily life with three babes and one momma(and a far-away super star dad). its busy. its not always pretty. actually, its not pretty a lot of the time, however - its also a whole lot of awesome. its forcing me to slow down on the "other" stuff in my life and focus on staying in the midst of managing everyone's needs.  we're doing it and i'm pretty proud of myself...we four even did the grocery shopping yesterday; me my three babies and two shopping carts strolling through the produce section. but mostly its going smoothly because of all my awesome friends here who have picked up helping out where the mothers left off when they packed up and shipped out.  i've had meals delivered and helping hands a couple evenings, a walk for baxterfurlongs picked up from the store and even babysitting for one of the kids during an appointment to make things easier on me. thank you to everyone who is reaching out to help me hold up all those spinning plates!!! xoxoxo
chatting to daddy on the phone...."how is your day, daddy?"
deedee with her three babies all together in one place at one time

adam came down for a visit so we spent the sunny saturday morning at sea world

betsy running in the squishy baby-play area while pete and adam climb the cargo nets
"i'm ready!!!" she said it over and over and shrieking with delight while adam flew her around in the bucket
having so much fun having a man around
peek-a-boo!
adam getting a snuggle with baby curtis while momma gives the big kids baths
giving her baby kate momma-milk
our sweet baby curtis growing bigger by the minute!
giving his baxter some love on the couch during betsy's nap
wearing his baby kate in the sling - his new thing this entire evening. the baby is sleeping with him tonight too!
fun activities before bath time...Betsy is wearing panties at her own insistence and she used the potty successfully twice today!
baxter cleaning up the dinner time "samples"
story time on pete's bed
there's his baby tucked in ready for bed :)

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

moonlight beach

our morning was busy taking care of business. little sis took an early nap after an early wake up. the potty broke and the plumber came to save the day. and then, at 3 pm, against my momma-instincts and only because i had my mom here to help save the day in the event of chaos, we loaded into the van and drove to moonlight beach in encinitas. we (i) needed the beach. and it felt soooo good. the kids had a grand time jumping off the dunes. i couldn't help but grin a little from my seat perched on the sand nursing curtis as i watched my mom SPRINT across the beach after we noticed betsy, sneaky little betsy, making a beeline for the tide. that little lady but is a fast one! and you could hear her giggling all the way, she almost made it to her destination and i'm not sure she would have stopped until she was at least waist deep in the water. she is determined and brave and has no fear in her sweet little heart. i love that about her. i am also a little terrified about that, i know she'll keep me on my toes! :)  after some good romping in the sand, we moved over to the grassy playground area for subway dinner on the lawn and some playground exploration.  once curtis is a little bigger and able to ride in a cozy, sturdy baby carrier and is has a little more predictable meal schedule i think i'll be able to manage a trip to the park without a second set of adult hands (and eyes!), but for now i think we'll be having play time in our back yard. peter does great on the playground, he is extremely skilled at all things climbing related and has a good handle on his limits as well as the effects of gravity. fearless betsy, however, is not quite there yet and definitely requires a helping hand to steady her when she is at the peak of her climbing endeavors and certainly demands a watchful eye to be sure that she doesn't end up halfway across town!  this is a busy little life with these three littles and i'm a little anxious about how i'll do on my first solo parenting day (coming oh so soon!) but i'm also excited for all the big doses of awesome that we'll encounter, we three, together along the way of our journey.  going to bed tonight with a big happy heart after a phone call from my amazing hubby and a big heaping dose of fun at the beach with my family. xoxo



watching the volleyball match
walking along on the balance beam :) the only way to go!

watching the sunset

dinner on the lawn

growing a family of littles

with the arrival of curtis, our already very full days have become even more full...which has, and will likely continue to, kept us at home more often than not. big brother and sister have gotten used to letting momma and curtis sleep a little later than the rest of the house (something that will end when deedee leaves on friday, but my goodness i have appreciated it while it lasted!) and as soon as they hear him fuss in the morning peter is at my door knocking and asking to please come in. they love to come in and check on his, say hi, give a hug and a kiss, and then after watching curtis and i do our best trick (nursing) for about half a minute, they are bored and move on to something else a little more exciting. betsy, however, tends to stay a bit closer, telling baby "its ok, baby curtis" (even when he's not crying) and patting his head, and asking to sit on my lap or just stand next to me. she loves to be close to her momma which makes my heart happy, and keeps me plugged into where she's at - she's big but she still needs her momma. with these three littles, each with their own set of needs and desires i will have to learn to dance a balanced jig around here to meet them exactly where they are right now.  pete is mr. independent but needs a lot of encouragement, support and praise for his endeavors. he's also full of things to share and i love hearing his endless chatter - need to make sure i stay tuned into what he's telling me, because there are so many interesting stories to hear. i love watching his imagination explode onto a whole new horizon of awesome ideas and inventions.  he also needs a big space to move and jump and run every day, its part of his dna.  he loves to cut paper with scissors (zizzors) with a super-serious concentrating face involving a lot of tongue-sticking-out and he is quite into drawing now. i love that he verbalizes what it is that he is drawing as he goes, its fun to get a glimpse into the amazing amount of brain activity taking place in his happy little head. there are lots of drawings of family members, trains, daddy's jet, but then he also adds a lot of other random things. its just so cool to see it all unfold - all those thoughts and ideas, along with a lot of letter "P's".  betsy is full of go-power too and more than ever also needs a space where she can be her spider-monkey physically strong and busy self. she too has a lot of chatter, her favorite phrases are "don't do that again, peter!" said in a very stern voice and "look at me!" as she very purposely does something she is definitely not supposed to be doing (like dancing the cha-cha on the coffee table, climbing on top of the television...the list is long, actually!).  she is busy and fast and full of questions - she is a sponge and wants to know what everything is and discuss the details of what she sees and hears everywhere we go.  she's also become very good at concentrating - its amazing to watch her do puzzles, she actually examines the puzzle and the pieces and puts it exactly where it should go (her style is a bit different from pete's early puzzle attempts where he'd try to power the piece into every available hole in the puzzle and then end with a dramatic squeal of frustration...luckily he's gotten better now!).  she does an amazing job of keeping up with her big brother. and then there is this growing babe of ours, at 13 days old he's now a big 9 lbs 4.5 oz (up from 8 lbs 2 oz at birth), we're just watching him grow by the hour - legs and cheeks filling in, his color is beautiful now that all the jaundice has worked its way through his system. he's starting to sleep in 2-3 hour chunks which feels soooooo luxurious for this momma (last night i was asleep for 45 minutes before he woke up for his first night feeding and it was odd how refreshed i felt after such a short sleep - am grateful that i am sleeping hard as soon as i'm able to lay down again). he's having longer and longer awake periods each day with his eyes wide open, exploring the shadows and movement of the room. his little mouth is starting to busily explore his hands and fingers to see just what he can do with them, i'm sure he'll find his favorite finger to suck very soon.  he has all kinds of facial expressions that he showcases mostly when he is asleep. his awake face is mostly full of wonder as he takes in his surroundings.

checking on their baby
getting his finger prints and foot prints
filling the tub for his first bath - unfortunately the room was too steamy for good pictures, but we have video footage to share. like our other babes, he seemed to accept the warm bath without any fuss. he didn't love the drying off/chilly part of getting dressed but once he was bundled up and had a full tummy, he was happy to fall asleep for a nice nap.
post-bath naptime :)

loving this little one's nice long toes
helping deedee plant some new flowers in our sad empty flower pots

deedee-cam...more pics

deedee has been running the littles around to parks and places so i've nabbed some more pics from her iphone to share since i've missed out on the latest and greatest of activities lately (allowing curtis and i time to run around to appointments and make trips to base to get our moving process started, more on that soon!)...
rocking the shades in the minivan
big bubba way in the back of the van with his shades too





presidents' day art in the park @ community park
so happy she was there early enough to get her own bottle of glue...lol



haircut with mr. sal
sweet new hair cut ... and a stop to baskin robins